Hi Warren , love that you’re so honest and can bare your soul and vulnerability to the world. This article brings all sorts of emotions to the surface and definitely from the Kemp camp how one’s childhood upbringing can alter and impact all these character traits that parents of that era did not comprehend or nurture. Thankfully our mother was a very caring and considerate soul . You write beautifully Warren and each article from your ever enquiring mind helps us to strive to be better humans, partners and parents ; we’re never too old to learn !
Beautifully written- and again - the vulnerability and authenticity and humanness’ of this article makes it especially relatable.
Beautifully written Warren! Your ability to be vulnerable (and to own that vulnerability) is incredibly special.
For most of my life I was that awkward gawky teenager, then young adult and even more mature adult - never quite fitting into the corporate mould (and mildew) but through select one-on-ones I found my tribe over the years.
Now I thrive on my aloneness, because I can dip into my tribe for nurturing when I need to. And I’ve come to accept that the feeling of isolation is there to remind me of who’s real, and who’s not. And the I’ll have that satisfying moment of perspective and gratitude for my little ‘tribe’. Some of that tribe are not humans, they’re my furry feline companions who get me through and through, and who are in tune with every facet of my flawed and perfectly fallible being. My protectors and companions and soulmates are mostly not the humans who make me like an outcast sometimes, who can’t handle my intensity and my warmth.
It’s all ok. You’re able to self- regulate and reflect and dissect what you’re feeling - what a powerful gift. You’ll never be truly lonely Warren. You have a tribe 💪
For you and me, little tribes, including the furries, are the best kind. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts Jen - I'm grateful for them.
Wow, Warren, once again you've delivered an incredible and spot-on piece of writing! Your talent shines through, and I truly appreciate you sharing such thought-provoking, practical, and real-life advice. It's not only inspiring but deeply impactful—thank you for always offering such valuable insights!
Strangely, I don't find it particularly difficult to be vulnerable anymore. Maybe I'm not going deep enough! But probably it's because I know everyone struggles and so what's the big deal.
Hi Warren , love that you’re so honest and can bare your soul and vulnerability to the world. This article brings all sorts of emotions to the surface and definitely from the Kemp camp how one’s childhood upbringing can alter and impact all these character traits that parents of that era did not comprehend or nurture. Thankfully our mother was a very caring and considerate soul . You write beautifully Warren and each article from your ever enquiring mind helps us to strive to be better humans, partners and parents ; we’re never too old to learn !
Thanks Mom. Inspired by your willingness to keep learning and growing despite your formative wiring.
Beautifully written- and again - the vulnerability and authenticity and humanness’ of this article makes it especially relatable.
Beautifully written Warren! Your ability to be vulnerable (and to own that vulnerability) is incredibly special.
For most of my life I was that awkward gawky teenager, then young adult and even more mature adult - never quite fitting into the corporate mould (and mildew) but through select one-on-ones I found my tribe over the years.
Now I thrive on my aloneness, because I can dip into my tribe for nurturing when I need to. And I’ve come to accept that the feeling of isolation is there to remind me of who’s real, and who’s not. And the I’ll have that satisfying moment of perspective and gratitude for my little ‘tribe’. Some of that tribe are not humans, they’re my furry feline companions who get me through and through, and who are in tune with every facet of my flawed and perfectly fallible being. My protectors and companions and soulmates are mostly not the humans who make me like an outcast sometimes, who can’t handle my intensity and my warmth.
It’s all ok. You’re able to self- regulate and reflect and dissect what you’re feeling - what a powerful gift. You’ll never be truly lonely Warren. You have a tribe 💪
For you and me, little tribes, including the furries, are the best kind. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts Jen - I'm grateful for them.
Wow, Warren, once again you've delivered an incredible and spot-on piece of writing! Your talent shines through, and I truly appreciate you sharing such thought-provoking, practical, and real-life advice. It's not only inspiring but deeply impactful—thank you for always offering such valuable insights!
You are welcome Ellen. If I can provoke one thought that makes things a little easier, that's all the motivation I need to keep going. Thank you.
Thanks for being vulnerable, Warren. Such a wonderful quality in a world filled with empty bravado.
Strangely, I don't find it particularly difficult to be vulnerable anymore. Maybe I'm not going deep enough! But probably it's because I know everyone struggles and so what's the big deal.